Sex Coach Melbourne | Integrative, Women-Focused Support
This is not just about sex — it’s about everything that makes you feel alive.
The Wilde Way™, Done Your Way
From Sacred Women’s Circles to Integrative Sex Coaching & Education online, these offerings are invitations to return to your body, your pleasure, and your power.
Wonderfully Wilde Online Women’s Circle
A monthly drop-in space for ritual, embodiment & reconnection
This is your invitation to pause.
To step out of performance and into presence.
To lay down the armour of being “fine” and let yourself just be.
In these circles, we return home to Body, Eros & Soul.
We gather around the Sabina Wilde Oracle, drawing on women’s Herstories, Rituals, Embodiment practices, and self-inquiry as doorways into deeper connection to ourselves and the world.
Each month, a new card guides our theme. Together, we root into our bodies, reclaim the eros that fuels our aliveness, and befriend our souls that holds us steady.
You don’t have to share. You don’t have to be in the mood. You just have to show up.
Through gentle ritual, embodied practices, and compassionate witnessing, we remember what it means to feel nourished, connected and at home in our bodies.
You’ll receive:
❤️ Rituals to bring greater meaning into your life
❤️ Somatic practices that calm, ground, and restore
❤️ Nervous system awareness
❤️ Visualisations to help connect your heart’s desires
❤️ Monthly cosmic weather report
❤️ Explore themes like aliveness, your authentic “yes” and “no”, shame, softness, safety, boundaries and sovereignty.
Wonderfully Wilde Women’s Circles
1:1 Online Coaching for Women (Launching 2026)
For the woman who’s been the strong one for too long, who longs to feel safe, sensual, and fully at home in her body.
I’ll be offering private 1:1 Integrative Sex & Intimacy Coaching & Education starting 2026. This is a pathway for women ready to untangle shame, reclaim intimacy, and soften into their most sacred, sensual selves.
Together, we’ll create space to explore what feels tender for you. We can work with low desire or the numbness you’ve been carrying, meeting body image pain or moments of erotic disconnection with compassion, loosening the grip of religious or cultural shame around sex and pleasure, discovering safety in orgasm, desire, and intimacy, and softening the exhaustion that comes from always being the one who holds it all.
You’ll be guided to slowly, tenderly:
❤️Reclaim the parts of you that feel unseen or silenced
❤️ Build a safe, loving relationship with your body
❤️ Explore self-touch, your sexual anatomy, sensuality and boundaries with care
❤️ Unravel inherited shame and write your own sexual narrative
❤️ Expand your capacity for joy, pleasure and felt safety
This is a science-informed™, trauma-aware, pleasure-led, and somatically held approach to intimacy, desire, and embodied aliveness.
Completely clothed. No bodywork. Just space to soften, remember, and return to yourself.
1:1 & Group begins in 2026.
Wilde Courses, Wilde Workshops & Wilde Retreats
Beginning in 2026 for the woman who craves softness, safety, and full-spectrum expression.
I’ll be guiding women through intimate online programs and in-person workshops in Paris, Australia & beyond.
These experiences are designed to support you in:
— Reclaiming joy and sensuality in your everyday life
— Cultivating erotic safety through nervous system awareness
— Exploring your desires, boundaries, and sexual narrative
— Deepening self-intimacy through guided touch and embodiment practices
Reconnecting with your wild, radiant, expressive self without shame
Expect:
❤️ Somatic rituals
❤️ Pleasure mapping & guided self-touch
❤️ Somatic movement & embodiment
❤️ Self Intimacy-awareness practices
❤️ Group ritual and circle space
❤️ Trauma-informed facilitation with deep gentleness
Whether we gather online, in a Parisian studio, or barefoot in Bali -these spaces are here for your reawakening.
Courses and retreats begin in 2026.
Join the waitlist to be the first to know when doors open.
Body · Eros · Soul
This work isn’t just about sex.
It’s about remembering who you are at your deepest level.
When we return to the body, we awaken eros. And when we awaken eros, we reconnect with the soul.
Body. Your anchor of safety
Your body is the entry point. Without a felt sense of safety, it’s impossible to soften into real intimacy. Through breath, touch, and somatic presence, you’ll learn to feel at home again in your skin. Your body becomes a source of grounding, resilience, and aliveness.
Eros. Your pulse of pleasure and aliveness
Eros is your life force - the spark that fuels intimacy, creativity, and desire. When you’re disconnected from your body, eros dims. By reclaiming pleasure, play, and erotic energy, you unlock vitality not just in the bedroom, but in every part of life.
Soul. Your compass of truth and belonging
When body and eros are alive, you can finally hear the quiet wisdom of your soul. This is where your life expands beyond survival, beyond autopilot, into purpose. You begin asking questions like: What is my heart’s desire? What do I want to create? What sets me on fire?
Here, you meet your own truth, belonging, and intuition, and it becomes a place of deep self-trust.
This is the beauty of sex coaching- it’s not about performance or fixing. It’s about coming home to your body, reclaiming your eros, and befriending your soul so you can live, love, and create from the most authentic version of yourself.
“Sexuality is fluid. Sex doesn’t make us whole. And so, how could you ever be broken?”
Jean Milbourne, Sex Education
QUIZ COMING SOON! Where Are You on Your Self-Intimacy Journey?
Start here. Tune in. Let your body show you what she’s been longing for.
FAQs
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Integrative Sex Coaching & Education is a Health-Science Informed™, trauma-informed, and pleasure-led approach to intimacy, desire, and self-connection. It blends neuroscience, somatic tools, and sex-positive education to support you in coming home to your body — gently and safely.
This work acknowledges that your sexuality doesn't exist in a vacuum. Hormones, nervous system health, medical history, and emotional wellbeing all shape how we experience pleasure and intimacy. A Health-Science Informed™ coach understands these factors and will always work within their scope of practice — collaborating with you (and your care team if needed) to honour your body’s full story.
This isn’t about performance.
It’s not about fixing.
It’s about reclaiming.Reclaiming softness. Reclaiming safety. Reclaiming the right to want, to feel, to receive, to be fully here — in your body, your pleasure, your truth.
Whether you’re feeling shut down, stuck in old patterns, or simply craving more aliveness, Integrative Sex Coaching offers a deeply compassionate path forward — one that meets your mind, body, and heart.
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Yes. Low desire and numbness aren’t personal failures — they’re often brilliant adaptations to stress, trauma, or overwhelm. Integrative sex coaching offers a gentle, somatic path back to yourself. Through nervous system support, embodiment, and permission-based practices, we slowly reawaken sensation, desire, and pleasure in a way that feels safe, not forced.
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While therapy often explores the past, this work is focused on your present experience and future possibility. Integrative Sex coaching blends health science-informed education & trauma-informed coaching, and somatic & embodiment tools. It’s not about diagnosing or fixing. We work together to support your nervous system, clarify your desires, and create practical, body-based shifts in how you experience intimacy, pleasure, and connection.
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Not at all. This work is about more than “better sex.” It’s about reclamation — of your body, your voice, your softness, your joy. Yes, partnered intimacy may expand, but so will your capacity to feel nourished, set boundaries, soften, and live from a place of embodied aliveness. This is work for your whole self.
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Yes. So many women carry unspoken shame from purity culture or narratives around sexuality, pleasure and desire. Cultural conditioning is a big deal. This work offers a soft, sacred space to explore what you inherited — and decide what you want to keep. Through education, somatic practice, and gentle ritual, you’ll be supported to untangle shame and reclaim a relationship with pleasure that feels grounded, safe, and truly yours.
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This work is grounded in deep respect for all identities, orientations, and lived experiences. At this time, my coaching and circles are specifically created for women and vulva owners.
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No. This journey begins with you. Whether you’re single, partnered, poly, celibate, or somewhere in-between — the work is about deepening your self-intimacy, body connection, and erotic agency. You don’t need a partner to explore desire, touch, or pleasure. You just need a willingness to begin.
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Yes. All sessions are held online in a safe, private space. Your confidentiality and emotional safety are foundational.
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I’m currently completing a 500-hour certification as a Certified Integrative Sex Coach & Educator (ISCC, graduating 2025). My approach is health science informed, trauma-informed, pleasure-centered, and rooted in somatic embodiment. I also hold a Bachelor in Psychology & Disability, a Master of Teaching, and have trained in women’s circle facilitation, and experienced in ritual practice, and creative expression.
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If you feel emotionally overextended and erotically underfed… if you’re longing to feel more — more softness, more aliveness, more you — this work might be the invitation you didn’t know you were waiting for. You can start by taking the quiz below to discover what’s blocking your pleasure.
👉 [Take the Quiz →]
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For many women, the longing begins quietly — a whisper for softness, for space, for something real. A desire to feel again. To reclaim what’s been silenced or sacrificed.
The Wilde Way™ is how we begin.
It’s a unique approach that offers embodied Women’s Circles, Integrative Intimacy & Sex coaching (doors open in 2026), and science-backed sex education (the kind you wish you'd been taught at school). These offerings are invitations to return to your body, your pleasure, and your power — all at your own pace, in your own way.

