Sex & Intimacy Coach
Helping you reconnect with your full feminine potential in sex, love, and life.
Certified Sex Coach | Women-Focused Support
Get Your FREE 2026 Future Self Visualisation
Meet your 2026 Future Self through a gentle meditation designed to help you RELEASE what you’ve been carrying and gently orient toward PLEASURE & JOY.
Are you ready for a science-based,
pleasure-led approach to help you reconnect with your body + sensuality,
reclaim desire & feel more alive in your life?
I see you. You want to feel seen, heard and understood. You want to know that you matter.
You want to know you’re not crazy for wanting these things - that good sex is possible, that orgasms are possible, that there’s no shame in wanting more.
You want to know you’re not bad.
You want to feel free.
Alive in your body.
Alive in your life.
You want to be connected - to your heart, to your desire, to yourself.
You want to know what you actually want.
You want to have boundaries and stick by them.
You want to say no and mean it.
And you want to say yes to life.
You want to feel loved.
You want to feel enough.
You want to feel worthy without having to earn it.
And you’re tired of feeling like you have to perform.
You know something needs to change.
And you’re ready for support that actually meets you where you are.
Imagine if you could…
✓ Reconnect with your body, desire, and pleasure rather than wasting years trying to fix yourself or cycling through approaches, hacks, and toys that don’t work for you.
✓ Take back agency in your intimate and relational life and feel more at home in yourself, without forcing desire, pushing through discomfort, or overriding your limits.
✓ Experience deeper connection and intimacy with yourself and others from a place of presence, safety, and genuine desire.
✓ Build a sustainable, nourishing relationship with pleasure without burning out, dissociating, or constantly analysing yourself.
✓ Create meaningful change by working with your body and following principles of embodiment, consent, and integration instead of relying on willpower or self-discipline.
✓ Release cultural narratives and conditioning that have shaped how you relate to your body, pleasure, and worth, so you can leave behind old patterns of striving, numbing, and self-abandonment that no longer serve you.
Hi! I’m Sabina Wilde…
I do this work because I know what it feels like to believe you’re alone.
When my marriage ended at 28, after discovering my husband was gay, I felt completely lost. There was no mirror for that experience. No language. No representation. Just shame and silence.
And I never want another woman to feel that isolated in her story.
I became a Sex & Intimacy Coach so women can see themselves reflected in my work and no longer feel alone or too much. And I’m here for the women who want more. The women who feel ashamed of their hunger. The women who have numbed their pain and desire and feel shame for wanting more.
So much of the conversation in my space is about women not wanting sex.
But what about the women who do?
Who want more intimacy, more aliveness, more connection, more truth?
I hold space for them too.
I believe sexuality, embodiment, and soul reclamation are doorways back into a woman’s power. And I know that from my own lived experience.
I’ve walked through shame. Disconnection. Identity rupture. Purity culture. Addiction.
This work is devotional and life changing.
I’ve been initiating women into their power since I was a young child. I just didn’t have language for it then.
And I believe being a woman is the most incredible gift (It only took me 20 years to figure that out!)
Helping women remember that, in their bodies, their sexuality, their souls, is why I’m here.
After a decade devoted to personal healing and self-inquiry, formal study through a Bachelor of Health Sciences majoring in Psychology and a Master of Teaching, deep exploration of trauma, sexuality, and relationships, completion of a 500-hour certification as an Integrative Sex Coach & Educator, and years of witnessing women transform through embodied women’s circles, I’ve come to understand the pathways that guide women from numbness, shame, and erotic deprivation back into wholeness.
The Body · Eros · Soul Approach
A trauma-informed, body-centred pathway for women ready to move from numbness, shame, and erotic deprivation into wholeness.
What I have found is that women hold profound wisdom, desire, and aliveness within themselves. And it’s my role to help you gently uncover it, restore safety in your body, and reconnect with your natural capacity for pleasure, intimacy, and self-trust.
It would be a disservice to you as a woman, and to the world, if I didn’t share everything I know about how women can reclaim their bodies, their eros, and their inner authority after years of conditioning, suppression, and survival. This work is big (and beautiful)!
I’m here to guide you step -by- step back into embodied safety to meet your authentic desires and so that you can make choices that are rooted in truth rather than fear or shame.
“Never feel alone in your story or ashamed of your desire ever again.”
From Women’s Circles to Integrative Sex Coaching & Education online, these offerings are invitations to return to your body, your pleasure, and your power.
The Wilde Way™ Programs
Monthly online ritual, embodiment & connection
Private integrative sex & intimacy coaching
Immersive experiences for embodied pleasure & community
Download for FREE: Your 2026 Future Self Visualisation
✓ Discover how pleasure can be used as a nervous system resource to soften chronic stress, tension, and the habit of always holding it together.
✓ Learn how to return to your body in a way that feels safe and supportive, without forcing desire, analysing yourself, or pushing past your limits.
✓ Experience what it feels like to feel grounded, present, and at home in yourself again, rather than living in your head or on constant alert.
✓ Reconnect with your desire in a way that feels genuine and nourishing, instead of pressured, performative, or disconnected from your body.
✓ Identify and begin releasing the patterns of striving, numbing, and self-override that keep you stuck in survival mode.
✓ Meet a future version of yourself who lives with more ease, pleasure, and self-trust, and receive guidance from her grounded wisdom.
✓ Begin weaving pleasure, presence, and nervous system regulation into your everyday life, rather than saving rest and aliveness for “someday.”
