Certified Sex Coach & Educator for Women

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Come Home to Your Body.

Perhaps you've spent years searching for the answer everywhere except the one place you've always carried it, your own body. Whether you're navigating motherhood, heartbreak, perimenopause, relationship challenges, or simply feeling disconnected from yourself, this is an invitation to stop fixing yourself and start coming home.

Maybe you're here because...

  • A major life transition has changed you. Motherhood, perimenopause, heartbreak, divorce, caregiving, career demands, or the sheer busyness of life has left you feeling disconnected from yourself, and you're not quite sure how to find your way back.

  • You love your partner deeply, but somewhere along the way you've stopped wanting to be intimate. You miss the connection you once had, and you don't understand why things have changed.

  • You've been single for years, and the thought of dating again feels overwhelming. Part of you longs for love and intimacy, but you don't know where to begin or how to trust anymore.

  • You've never experienced an orgasm, or pleasure has always felt confusing, inconsistent, or out of reach. You're quietly wondering if something is wrong with you, or if everyone else seems to have received a manual that you somehow missed.

  • You've spent so long looking after everyone else that you've forgotten what it feels like to ask yourself what you want, need, or desire. Somewhere along the way, you stopped making yourself a priority.

  • You've read the books, listened to the podcasts, been to therapy, and done years of personal development. Yet you still feel disconnected from your body, and you're beginning to realise that understanding yourself intellectually isn't the same as feeling at home in yourself.

  • You're tired of trying to fix yourself. Deep down, you're longing for support that helps you understand your body with compassion rather than constantly fighting against it or having to do it on your own.

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Hi! I’m Sabina Wilde…

I do this work because I know what it feels like to believe you're alone.

When my marriage ended at 28, after discovering my husband was gay, I felt completely lost. There was no mirror for that experience. No language. No representation. Just shame and silence.

That experience changed my life.

It also the reason I do this work.

Today, I help women reconnect with their bodies, their relationships, and themselves through health science-informed, pleasure-led coaching.

Because no woman should have to navigate this journey alone.

Certified Integrative Sex Coach & Educator
Bachelor of Health Sciences (Psychology & Disability) • Master of Teaching

Together, we'll work towards:

Reconnecting with your body, your desire, and your capacity for pleasure without feeling like you need to fix yourself or endlessly search for the next solution.

Taking back agency in your intimate and relational life, learning to honour your boundaries, listen to your body, and stop pushing through discomfort.

Building deeper connection and intimacy with yourself and others from a place of presence, safety, and genuine desire.

Developing a more nourishing relationship with pleasure that feels sustainable, supportive, and integrated into everyday life.

Creating lasting change by working with your body, using evidence-based education, embodiment practices, and compassionate support rather than relying on willpower alone.

Letting go of old beliefs, conditioning, and patterns of self-abandonment so you can relate to yourself with more compassion, trust, and freedom.

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The Wilde Way™

A body-centred approach to helping women reconnect with themselves, their desire, and their relationships.

My work is grounded in the understanding that lasting change doesn't happen through insight alone. It happens when we reconnect with our bodies, honour our desires, and learn to trust ourselves again.

That's why I work through three interconnected pathways:

Body— Restoring safety, presence, and trust in your body.

Eros — Reconnecting with desire, pleasure, and aliveness.

Soul — Remembering who you are beneath the expectations, conditioning, and stories that no longer serve you.

Whether you're looking for personalised coaching, the support of a women's circle, or immersive workshops, there's a place for you here.

The Wilde Way™ Programs

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Wonderfully Wilde Women’s Collective

For women longing for connection, community, and monthly embodied practice.

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1:1 Online Coaching for Women

For women ready for personalised support, practical tools, and lasting change.

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Wilde Workshops

For women wanting immersive experiences to explore embodiment, pleasure, and self-discovery.

  • The session felt safe and open and the practical tips were immediately useful. My biggest insight was realizing that desire starts in the mind and that many things that once sparked it had quietly faded due to daily routine. The exercises for you and your partner are exiting and make you connect on a deeper level. I left the session feeling more aware, exiting and with clear tools you can use immediately.

    Jorien, 38, Process Improvement Expert, Rotterdam

  • I have had the most incredible experience. Becoming more comfortable in my own skin and mind about myself in a sexual way feels like a breath of fresh air. I am so grateful I had the opportunity to talk to Sabina.

    Téa, 20, Barista, Geelong

  • Regularly attending Sabina’s women’s circles for the last two years has given me a lot more confidence to engage thoughtfully in my own growth and celebrate my wins. I’ve loved coming together with a trusted group of women every month to share, listen and learn.

    Emma, 33, Marketing, Melbourne

  • Sabina provides a thoughtful and considered approach to her Circles… Creating a safe space for participants is extremely important to her, and this is reflected in her work… Attending the Circle is calming, nourishing, insightful, and reflective.

    Nicolette, 33, Psychologist, Geelong

  • I have felt so held in a mindfully crafted and safe container. I know that when I arrive I can surrender and be nourished amongst women. There is so much beauty in what is being offered.

    Elva, 42, Mental Health Worker, Geelong

  • Sabina's circles are incredibly thoughtful, considered and created with so much love you can feel it the second you walk through the door. You never need to worry attending one of these circles because of the level of care and incredible space holding. I love every element of these circles and all the rituals weaved together - they are fun, wholesome and really help you tune in to yourself and fill your cup!

    Hannah, 30, Doula, Geelong

  • Thank you for such a sacred, supportive and informative coaching session. I have taken on board many aspects from our session and implemented them into my relationship with myself and my partner. I absolutely loved how you provided me with so many tools that I can use to support me and partner to strength our relationship further.

    Anna, 35, Corporate Reporting Officer, Melbourne

  • I have been attending Sabina’s women’s circle for a year and it was such a beautiful experience… I felt supported, grounded, and deeply connected in a way that’s rare to find… I left feeling lighter, inspired, and genuinely grateful to have been part of it… Highly recommend.

    Mia, 31, Counsellor, Geelong

  • That was soooooooo beautiful! It was truly powerful and I feel a million X better for it! Truely loved and adored it and got so much out of it.

    Hannah, 30, Doula, Geelong

  • I loved doing the yoni painting and connecting to other women through sharing stories.

    Bec, 34, Child & Family Health Nurse, Geelong

  • The yoni painting was very special...alongside learning about the history of the vulva and all the sculptures and symbols.

    Mia, 31, Counsellor, Geelong

  • You are a great space holder! It felt safe and comfortable and I learned a lot.

    Alana, 34, Student & Mother, Geelong

  • Being provided the space to explore such an important topic (pleasure anatomy) without judgement or stigma. All the same parts, just put together differently!

    Bree, 30, Teacher, Geelong

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Ready to return to your body, your pleasure, and your truth?

Every woman deserves to feel safe in her body, connected to her desire, and free to live from a place of authenticity rather than shame and obligation.